Frequently Asked Questions  

What if my partner doesn’t want to come?
You and I can begin this work ourselves. Sometimes one person is afraid to open their lives to a third party and is reluctant to participate. When they find out that you are feeling comfortable and good work is taking place, they often decide to join the sessions.

Am I doing something wrong to cause the problems in my relationship?
It is common for one person to blame themselves or the other person for problems in the relationship. I believe that each person contributes to the issues that are causing discomfort. Rarely though is one person causing the entire problem.

Will you give us your opinion about what to do?
I will bring my 30+ years of experience to our work. I will point out issues and patterns that you and your partner are enacting. When someone loves another and things aren’t working, it causes a challenging dilemma. It is tempting to ask someone else to decide what to do. I would rather help you become a stronger decision maker. Be assured though, that I will be with you each step of the way as you decide what is best for you and your situation.

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